When she is mad at you-”I'm not mad at you"(I'm mad at you)"I'm fine"(I'm not fine)Anyone who's been in a relationship has probably heard these things a million times before. Perhaps the only thing more damning than "I'm mad at you" is "I'm not mad at you." Maybe you're in a relationship where all the communication is completely 100% transparent, but we're not betting on it.當你讓她抓狂的時候-"我不生氣“（我生氣着呢）”我好得很“（我不好）這些話談過戀愛的人估計都聽過無數次。比“你讓我抓狂”更讓人抓狂的莫過於“沒事，我好着呢”。或者這段戀愛關係中的交流看似100%顯而易見，但我們可不這麼認為哦。
When she is not into you-Rejecting someone can be really awkward, and a lot of girls go out of their way to distance themselves without actually coming out and saying it. Chances are, she's not going to spell it out for you in bold, capital letters. She's going to keep dropping hints and really, really hope you get the message. Hopefully you've become wise to a lot of these subtle rejections, but if you hear them on a regular basis and still keep trying, maybe it's time to take a step back.當她不喜歡你的時候-拒絕別人有時候真的蠻尷尬的，很多女生會用自己的方式保持距離而非當面説出口。問題在於，她並不會把字母一個個拼出來放在你面前。而是不斷地留下暗示並且非常非常希望你能明白。希望你對這些善意的拒絕有了一定的瞭解，如果你已經接收到暗示仍不死心，我勸你還是撤吧。
When You're In The Friend Zone-If you've ever been knee-deep in the friend zone and tried to take things to the next level, you've probably heard some of these phrases before. What you failed to realize is that there is no next level from the friend zone. It's the final frontier of loneliness. You've been caring, supportive, and always there for her. Kind of like a mother. And you wonder why she doesn't want to sleep with you.當你是藍顏知己的`身份時-如果你已經是女生的藍顏知己還想進一步往下發展，這幾句話大概都不陌生。你要明白除去朋友別無其他可能。這是孤獨交際的邊界線。也許你很困惑明明已經關心，支持甚至一直為她守候。像媽媽那樣。她為什麼就是不願意做你女朋友。
When she's breaking up with you-If you've ever been broken up with before, you've undoubtedly heard some of these. Chances are, the flame died a long time ago, and she's been trying to work up the courage to break it off for a while. In an effort to end things with the least amount of weeping and protesting on your part, she breaks things off with you in the gentlest way possible.當她和你分手的時候-如果你曾經失戀過，那麼肯定聽過這些話。事實上，愛火很久之前就已熄滅，她也是努力鼓起勇氣來提出分手。儘量讓你不過度傷心難過來提出分手已經是她能做到的最温柔的事情了。
when she is a little unsure-“Do i look OK on this?"(I'm not looking for fashion advice, just pay me a compliment)“So are we together"(Are you still sleeping with other girls?)“I like your friends, but..."(I don't like your friends)”You don't have to buy me a present"(You have to buy me a present)These phrases are mostly tests. Pop quizzes of the relationship world that are easy to fail if you take them at face value. Tread carefully, friends, for these phrases are not what they seem.當她有點不確定時-"我穿這個怎麼樣？”（我可不需要什麼時尚的建議，讚美就夠了）"我們算是在一起了麼？”（你還有備胎麼？）"我蠻喜歡你朋友們的，但...”（我不喜歡你的朋友們）"不用給我買禮物啦“（我要禮物！）這些話大部分都是試探。在感情的世界中一旦你只注意到表面那麼必死無疑啦。謹慎點，這些話可沒那麼簡單哦。
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